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Thought of Tony at Christmas  / Kathy Wilson (family friend )
as Mike and I do every day -  I started packing for our upcoming move.  I threw a bunch of jackets on the bed for Mike to look at and pack and left the room.  When I came back in a few minutes later, Mike was so sad, standing with an old jacket on and had his arms wrapped around himself.  I asked him what's wrong?  He told me the jacket had belonged to Tony.  Tony had worn it to our house in California the day he helped Mike move our chicken coop.  He left it that day and for some reason we never thought about it again and he never asked about it.  That moment flooded Mike with emotion and thoughts of Tony -all the what ifs...lots of memories....   We'll send you that jacket soon.  XOXO
Daddy's tree  / Mom

Child's "heaven" lights up the season
Emily Lowell, Staff Writer
San Bernardino County Sun


Heaven closes at 10:30 p.m. this time of year, a good hour after Madyson Cornish's bedtime.

That is when Ken Stewart turns the lights off to his 92-foot Christmas tree, which rests in the hills above little Madyson's Cherry Valley house.


Madyson, only 3 years old, is about to spend her first Christmas without her father, and during the month of December the illuminated tree on Stewart's property looks to her like her daddy's Christmas tree in heaven.


"I know why we can't see it from here," shouted Madyson standing in her driveway. "Cause daddy put it behind the moon and the stars."


She scanned the dark hills with wide eyes once more before agreeing with herself and turning to her next activity - teasing the family dogs.


"We were Christmas shopping late one night," said Madyson's mom, Kim Cornish as tears well up. "On the drive home she said it, and it still makes me emotional talking about it."


Tony Cornish died in an off-roading accident in March. And for the first time in three years, Stewart determined this would be the year to resurrect his iron-clad tree, a tradition he began in 1995 and temporarily ended in 2002.


Resembling a air traffic control tower by day, the piece of metal and bulbs turns into an luminous tree by night.


Although his Calimesa property lies about three miles north of the Cornish residence, when darkness engulfs the valley below his home the spectacle can be seen throughout the valley.


"I am absolutely honored to think my Christmas tree is in heaven," said Stewart while standing under an umbrella of the 152 amps of light. "It made it worth all the work of getting it up."


What appears to be a tree floating in heaven, really is an old military tower with light bulbs strung from cables and fastened to the ground. Each cable has its own transformer to support the 175-watt light bulbs.


The $1,500 electricity bill has prompted Stewart to turn the lights off at 10:30 p.m. rather than midnight, but at that time Madyson is fast asleep in her bed.


Stewart would have been oblivious to Madyson's impression had he not delved into conversation with his waitress one morning while getting a daily cup of coffee at The Royale Family Restaurant in Calimesa.


"Ken comes in every morning with a group of friends," said Cornish who waits on tables part-time at The Royale. "I mentioned how much I loved that tree on the hill and he said it was his."


Cornish's comment prompted Stewart to invite the young mother and her family up for a closer look. And although it took Cornish a moment to realize he was not joking, she emotionally declined the offer.


"It is hard to explain heaven to a 3-year-old," said Cornish. "My daughter really thinks that tree is in heaven."


Cornish's close friend Kendra Salot has seen first-hand the comfort Stewart's tree has had on the family during the difficult holiday season.


"For just a millisecond it give me peace," said Salot, who wants to thank Stewart for lighting the spirit this season.


"I never thought I would have this kind of response," said Stewart. "But that is what makes it pretty special."

This was printed in The San Bernardino County Sun newspaper on 12/23/05
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wings / Patti
Today is christmas and there is such a huge piece missing.  we talked/
laughed/cried remembering you.The hardest time was when mady was unwrapping her presents.  one of the presents she received was a selection of disney costumes she could use for dress-up.  while she was
unwrapping them the comment was made "oh look, one of them has
wings" your daughter became so excited and said "I can go see daddy now"  It's just not right that you are not here.
Wow... / Bev Prine (Debi's former co-worker/GATX )
Bill and Debi,
Wow...just learned of Tony's passing away. So sorry. I have no words that can even begin to comfort. I remember Debi still called Tony "Buddy" and he said "It's Bud, Mom, not Buddy!" Keep in touch. Love, Bev and family
Thinking of U all  / Janine Schmidt
Yesterday, returning from Palm Desert, we saw your name in huge letters on the hillsides along the dunes.  It was easy to imagine you flying across those dunes, mach-10 with your hair on fire, having the time of your life.  If only every person who sees your name on the dunes could know who you were and how much you are missed by everyone whose life you touched. Keep your angels wings wrapped tightly around your girls, especially, keep them warm and safe and let them always feel you nearby. Bring peace to the hearts and souls of all your loved ones, at this special time of year when it means so much to be with family. It is so very hard to be without those you love year-round, let alone at Christmas.  You are all on my mind, and in my heart, every day. Wishing there was a way to turn back the clock......
a good guy lost...  / Ebony Parker Morris
i knew tony at aquinas... we had mutual friends... but we didn't know each other that well...

his house was on my route home from school- from 30th to little mountain drive...

he always had cool cars, i remember that...

i remember him and baseball, as a family friend and he used to play at blair park... and on the team at aquinas...

but i didn't know that he liked country music...

and i didn't know that he had a family...

i'm sorry that i didn't know him better...

and i'm sorry that he was lost so soon.

my condolences to his entire family.

and all my love and prayers for his wife and daughters.

rest in peace, tony.
My first Christmas in Heaven  / Tammie Hopper

Hi Deb,
Been thinking and praying for you, Bill and the girls alot lately. I found this poem and I fell in love with it. Gave me comfort for the loved ones I have lost. I hope it puts a smile in your heart.

You might already have it, if so, sorry.

My First Christmas in Heaven

I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below,
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.

The sight is so spectacular; please wipe away the tear;
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me. I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away. We really aren't apart.

So be happy for me, dear ones; you know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.

After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other as my Father said to do.
I can't count the blessings or love He has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year
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Love you Deb,
Tammie Hopper

The Cord  / Moms

The Cord

We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth,
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does its work right from the start,
it binds us together, attached by the heart
I know that it’s there, though no one can see
this invisible cord, from my child to me.
The strength of this cord, it’s hard to describe,
it can’t be destroyed, it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create;
it withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone and you’re not here with me,
the cord is still there though no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child…Death can’t take it away.

Author Unknown

holidays / Patti
over the last few weeks kimmy has had to deal w/issues tha u would
have handled - which has made her pain/missing u even deeper.  she is
so strong but she needs u more then ever.  now that we have started
the 1st holiday season since u been gone, please wrap your arms
even tighter around her. let her know u r always there. help her deal
not just with her pain but w/mady.  mady asks about u alot and she
sure misses u.  use whatever pull u have with the big guy and help
kimmy and ur mom/dad thru this season.  i miss u
forever/together / Patti

happy anniversary.   I'm looking thru your wedding pictures remembering what a beautiful day that was.  U & kim starting your life together. u 2 were
so happy.  Then I thought of the words "till death do us part" and how wrong those words are.  kimmmy luv for u goes thru to her soul.  you and
kimmy will always be forever together.  keep those arms wrapped around
her tightly.  I miss you. 

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